Good or bad, humor is always good
Conventional wisdom also suggests that leaders should avoid negative humor, though actual support for that belief is scarce and ambiguous.
Now, a recent study from the University of Missouri has found that the relationship between leader-humor and job satisfaction is dependent on the quality of the relationship between leaders and their subordinates not the positive or negative tone of the leader’s humor.
“Generally, people think that positive humor, which is inclusive, affiliative and tasteful, is good in leadership, and negative humor, which is aggressive and offensive, is bad,” said Christopher Robert, associate professor in the Department of Management in the Robert J. Trulaske, Sr. College of Business.
“In our study, we found the effects of humor depend on the relationship between leaders and subordinates. Specifically, both positive and negative humor use by leaders is positively related to their subordinates’ job satisfaction when the relationship between the leader and subordinates is good.
"However, when the leader-subordinate relationship is bad, both negative and positive types of humor are associated with lower job satisfaction–in other words, for leaders, sometimes good humor has bad effects and bad humor has good effects on subordinates.”
“The findings suggest that if leaders wish to integrate humor into their interactions with subordinates, they should first assess whether or not their subordinates are likely to interpret their humorous overtures positively,” Robert said. “If a good relationship between the leader and the subordinate exists, then humor–be it positive or negative in tone–will only help to maintain the good relationship.”
Robert also suggested that these results have implications for leaders’ strategic use of humor.
“Instead of using humor to build relationships, leaders should work to build strong relationships through other means such as through clear communication, fair treatment, and providing clear and useful feedback. Humor then can be used to maintain those strong relationships.”
Of course, don't replace dark humor with agressive or insulting, that will not help any relationship.
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